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” How’s that working for you? “

During marriage counseling, that phrase came to be Pastor W.’s most famous line…and the words that really made me grit my teeth. I guess my expectations and the reality of counseling didn’t exactly match up. What I wanted and expected … Continue reading

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Adultery used to be a foreign language…

After my husband’s affair, I became all too familiar with several terms that those of us in the same ‘club’ know very well. Terms like ‘trickle truth’, ‘hysterical bonding’, ‘triggers’…I would love to go back to the days when those … Continue reading

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” Where there is anger, there is always pain underneath. ” ~ Eckhart Tolle

I’m having an ugly day. I don’t know if there is any particular reason…it’s just one of those days. earlier today I was rereading a section in a book called Hedges By Jerry B. Jenkins. It’s about ways that people … Continue reading

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” Mom if you are reading this… “

I found a note earlier today left for me by one of my 3 oldest sons. It said , ” Mom if you are reading this remember to pray “ It caught me completely off guard. And when I stop … Continue reading

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Casualties of the Infidelity War…

I guess because of Mother’s day, I’ve been reflecting on my personal journey as a mother, from the birth of my first child in 1997, to present day where my youngest has just recently turned one. I’ve been thinking about … Continue reading

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The problem with porn…

Let me start with a disclaimer…if you like porn and believe it’s harmless, you probably shouldn’t read any further, because what I have to say will probably piss you off. If you like porn, I’m not judging you. What you … Continue reading

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“We often confuse what we wish for with what is.”

The other day I found a card laying by my bathroom sink. My husband is not very big on cards, so when he actually purchases one, and, more importantly, makes the effort to write something heartfelt and sincere, it touches … Continue reading

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